<p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">来源:互联网</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">引言:</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">21</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">世纪的青少年处于改革发展和知识信息爆炸的时代。他们自主意识强,思想敏锐,行为大胆、果断,打扮新潮入时、不拘一格,但处于青春发育期的青少年同时受到的心理困扰,心理矛盾非常突出。从近些年来专家学者们调查了解到的情况看,社会环境、学校环境以及家庭环境对青少年的身心发展产生了重要影响;尤其存在的不利因素,直接危害了学生的心理健康,甚至导致了学生产生各种心理障碍。那么青少年心理问题到底有哪些表现呢?青少年当前存在哪些心理健康问题呢?</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">一、青少年心理问题的主要表现</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、心理承受能力弱:大部分青少年心理天真,幼稚,缺乏对复杂现实的正确认识,一旦遇上风险和挫折,就容易产生退却、放弃的心理,从而对自己,甚至对未来失去信心。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、自私狭隘,虚荣心强:有很多学生,缺乏包容心态,容易对一些无关紧要的小事斤斤计较,不能听到任何的批评意见,觉得自己比任何人都优秀。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、缺乏毅力:当今青少年大都从小过着</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">小皇帝</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">”“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">小公主</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">的生活,一旦遇到困难,就难以鼓足勇气,知难而上,往往不能做到善始善终。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、情绪易波动,自控能力差:现在的青少年情商普遍偏低,面对一点意外事件或不顺心,就极度烦躁,影响到周围人的情绪,完全不顾及所处场合。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">二、当前青少年心理健康存在的问题</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、厌学问题</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 43px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">学习问题是学龄期青少年的主要心理卫生问题。很多青少年上小学后,由于种种原因,易出现适应不良。表现为注意力不集中、注意短暂、学习困难。厌学问题占青少年的心理问题的主要部分:</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">. </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">学习任务繁重,竞争激烈,父母的期待值过高,使得学生精神压力越来越大,这种情绪的循环往复,使他们对学习既无奈,又恐惧。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 21px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">. </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">厌学是目前青少年学习活动中比较突出的问题,这不仅是学习差的同学不愿学习,就连成绩很好的同学也有这种倾向,尤其遇到别人考试作弊,老师又对自已不理解,从而便这些所谓好学生也不想努力再学习。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、意志薄弱</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 32px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">青少年意志薄弱易上当,容易陷入毒品的误区。青少年正处在生理、心理发育时期,单纯无知,有强烈的好奇心与逆反心理,辨别是非能力不强,抵制毒品侵害的心理防线薄弱,对毒品的危害性和吸毒的违法性缺乏认识,容易上当受骗,容易陷入毒品的误区。</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、情绪问题</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 29px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">(1)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">逆反心理:逆反心理是青少年为维护自尊而采取的与常理相反的态度和言行的一种心态。随着青少年独立意识和自我意识增强,会迫切希望摆脱成人的管制。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 32px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)考前焦虑情绪问题:随着考试临近,不少学生相继出现一些奇怪</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">症状</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">”,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">心理咨询中将这些</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">怪病</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">解释为</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">考前焦虑症</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">。因为接连几次考试失利造成的。“害怕再失败,心理过度紧张就会出现考试时怯场,这是</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 21px"> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">一种较严重的考试焦虑状态。”</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、追星问题</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">青少年</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">追星</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">的心理主要体现再以下五个方面:</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">追求成功心理</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 21px"> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">;</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 32px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">炫耀心理</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 21px"> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">;</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">从众心理;</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">4</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">共鸣心理</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 21px"> </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">;</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">5</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">替代满足心理。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">&nbsp;</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">5</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、网络问题</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 29px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">互联网将分散于世界各地的信息联结起来,构成信息交换和分享文明的大平台,它增加了人们特别是青少年一代吸收信息和知识的渠道,缩短了人际交往的时间和空间,成为推动社会发展的强大动力。然而同时它又是一把双刃剑,在帮助青少年开阔视野,接受前卫观念,关注世界前沿问题的同时,也传播着一些颓废、黄色下流甚至反动的垃圾信息,对青少年心理的健康成长造成了严重的负面影响。消极网络文化的传播在很大程度上影响着青少年的价值观、人生观、世界观的形成,不文明的内容已经对青少年的身心健康造成极大的危害,致使青少年道德意识、法律意识淡化。</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">6</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、暴力倾向问题</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">调查发现,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">22%</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">的青少年认为自己</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">有一点</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">暴力倾向,遇到问题会想到诉诸暴力。部分接受调查的孩子认为自己性格存在偏激因素,例如有男生认为自己喜欢用暴力解决问题,另有些男生及一些女生认为自己</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">“</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">有一点暴力倾向</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: Tahoma; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">”</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; COLOR: black; FONT-SIZE: 21px">。</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">根据一位处理青少年犯罪案件的律师的说法,今年被捕的青少年当中,大部分是因涉及成群结党的群殴而落网,而且多数持有刀械,这是典型的暴力犯罪。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">7</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、性心理和早恋问题</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">早恋是青少年性心理的外化,是性心理转化为性行为的一种实践。早恋是一个极不确定的概念,属于社会历史范畴。根据我国目前的情况,可以把早恋界说为“不到恋爱年龄而进行的恋爱”,属于一种不适时的失控行为。在我国,早恋现象也相当普遍。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">8</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、其他人际关系问题</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">青少年所接触或要处理的人际关系无非就是:师生关系,同学关系,父母子女关系,而这些简单的人际关系却因青少年心理的不成熟而象大山一样,压在他们的心头。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">与教师的关系问题,主要集中在由于教师对学生的不理解</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">,</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">过多干涉学</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">生的业余生活和正常交往而引起的困惑和烦恼。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">与同学的关系,主要集中在交友方面,因处理不好朋友之间的关系而苦恼,好朋友对自已的不信任,认为朋友不能两肋插刀,而怀疑友谊的不真诚,使他们内心十分苦恼。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">.</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">与父母关系的问题,主要是因父母与子女之间缺乏相互理解与沟通,或家庭不和给子女造成的心灵伤害,有的孩子经常和父母吵闹,看到父母疲倦的面容又觉得父母可怜,每天生活在这种内心矛盾之中,却不知该如何向父母说,而父母的吵架,使家庭整日笼罩在硝烟中,使他们不愿呆在家里,整天就想向外跑,心里烦闷极了,觉得人活着没意思,父母行为的不良,带给子女的是不安全感,是对父母的厌恶、鄙视,造成青少年内心的创伤。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">三、青少年心理问题产生的原因</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、家庭因素</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 32px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">1</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)家庭关系紧张:有些家庭夫妻关系紧张,甚至离异。生活在这种家庭氛围中的孩子往往缺乏安全感,容易产生烦躁、自卑、孤僻、等变态心理。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em; TEXT-INDENT: 32px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">(</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">)父母忽视与孩子的沟通:现在许多家长对孩子进行教育时忽略了最重要的一点,就是孩子想要什么?许多孩子在内心当中希望与父母沟通,这需要双方的努力。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">2</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、学校因素</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">家庭教育对孩子来说无疑是第一课,但是孩子上学之后,大部分时间还是在学校中度过的,所以有些学校工作上的失误对孩子产生心理问题担负着不可推卸的责任。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">3</span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">、社会因素</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 24px">&nbsp;&nbsp; </span><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; FONT-SIZE: 21px">当前,社会上的一些不良风气对青少年影响极为严重。这就需要学校和家长共同努力,帮助孩子建立正确的人生观和价值观,不要让孩子误入歧途。</span></span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">&nbsp;</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">&nbsp;</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">&nbsp;</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; FONT-SIZE: 20px">&nbsp;</span></p><p style="LINE-HEIGHT: 3em"><span style="FONT-FAMILY: arial, helvetica,sans-serif; 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